Become someone people can rely on.

Steady is a ninety-day journey that measures what you actually did — commitments kept, loops genuinely closed, initiative taken, reflections completed. It does not manufacture motivation. It accumulates evidence.

What it does

Commitments — what you said you'd do, and whether it happened on time.
Closing the loop — work isn't finished until the person affected has been told. That single rule is what makes follow-through measurable rather than self-reported.
A daily check-in — six dimensions and two questions, about two minutes.
Weekly and monthly reviews — assembled from your own sentences, never paraphrased.
Lessons and situations to practise — twelve lessons, fifteen scenarios, each explaining consequences rather than marking answers right.

What it refuses to do

Steady never scores, stores, or infers another person's feelings, trust, or behaviour. There is no partner score and no relationship percentage, because those are not things an app can honestly know.

It does not shame. Overdue is amber, never red. A missed day says "Welcome back. The journey continues." Rates show a dash rather than a zero when there was nothing to measure — zero is a claim, and an absence is the truth.

Everything stays on your phone

Steady has no accounts, no analytics, no advertising, and no third-party code. It contains no networking software at all — an automated test fails the build if any is ever added. Nothing you write is uploaded, because there is nowhere for it to go.

You can export everything you have written, or delete all of it, at any time — and neither of those requires a subscription.

Availability

Steady is in development for iPhone. It is not yet on the App Store. This site exists so the privacy and terms are readable before it is.

Steady is not therapy, counselling, or medical care, and it does not diagnose or treat anything. It is self-help material. If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, contact your local emergency number, or in the US call or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.